Youíve had a lifetime to experience your life, donít shove it all down
his throat in one phone call. Give him time to digest.
Limit your phone calls
The rule of thumb in managing your communication with the guy you want
to land is this: keep the phone calls short. Leave him wanting more.
No last minute dates
If he calls for a Saturday night date on Friday then heís either at
the end of his list or just a really lousy planner. Either way, he needs
to understand that you are not a last minute date. Itís really hard to say
no to a date, any date, but you have to be strategic in becoming a woman
The male psyche is such that when you whine he hears ďyou arenít doing
things right.Ē His need to care for you is obliterated when you whine about
thingsÖit makes him feel like he is to blame for your discomfort.
Donít talk about other women
GossipÖyou have to admit, it can be fun. Though we know itís bad, itís
still something we canít often resist. But when it comes to men, lay off.
What they hear when you talk bad about another woman is your insecurity.
How to Become Less of a Nice Guy and More of a Guy She Wants
Donít tell her you love her too early on
Make sure she is dying to hear you say it before you ever do.
Donít get too far ahead of her emotionally
Women love a guy who knows how to leadÖbut get too far ahead of her
emotionally and you lose.
Donít talk more than her
Sure a girl loves a guy who talks with her, but she also likes to be
heard. So donít try to compete with her in the area of talking.
Have a life
Guys who suddenly make the girl their entire life are boring. Girls
want to see you with your friends, playing sports, working on carsÖwhatever.
Just have a life so she doesnít feel like she has to support you emotionally.
Thatís your job for her, not hers for you. (early in the dating relationship)