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0736915001
Trade Paperback
180 pages
Feb 2005
Harvest House Publishers

Ordinary Mom, Extraordinary God: Encouragement to Refresh Your Soul

by Mary DeMuth

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Contents

    He’s the Extraordinary One

  1. And a Happy New Ear
  2. Mommy, I’d Be Gladitude
  3. The Nervous Pie Eater
  4. The Pruning Hand of God
  5. Which Sister Are You?
  6. Crying for God
  7. The Desert
  8. Become as a Child
  9. Bodies like Jennifers
  10. Beware of Making Vows
  11. The Secret of Secrets
  12. The Interceding Savior
  13. The Entropy Monster
  14. To Wonder at Roly-Polies
  15. Native Habitat
  16. Loving Little Sinners
  17. I Cast All My Kids upon You
  18. Choosing Trinkets over Treasures
  19. Bearing the Cost
  20. Children, Our Coaches
  21. Confess It to the Little People
  22. Copycat Me
  23. Earn a Stress Less Badge
  24. Giving Our Eyeballs
  25. Heavily Ever After
  26. Life Is Short
  27. Motherhood from the Inside Out
  28. No Presents, Just Presence
  29. Spanking Practice
  30. Grief and the Idol of Self-Protection
  31. Threshing Floor Offerings
  32. Lessons Around the Dining Table
  33. Confidence from Jesus
  34. Tent Whining
  35. The Sisterhood of Motherhood
  36. The Lament Psalm of Motherhood
  37. The Seagulls and the Man
  38. Covered in His Dust
  39. Naked Barbie Spirituality
  40. Time to Do the Dishes
  41. Playing Rock, Paper, Scissors—Alone
  42. Potemkin Village
  43. One Girl, Three Broken Arms
  44. Brokenness
  45. When You Write, Remember Mike
  46. Jealous of Unneeded Glasses
  47. True Joy
  48. Eternal Perspective
  49. Running with Sun Shadows
  50. Lessons from a Snowwoman
  51. The Irresistible Future
  52. Pull One Weed
  53. Beware of Pedestalism
  54. The Myth of Perfection
  55. God’s Tender Voice
  56. The Purpose of Suffering
  57. That Restless Evil
  58. Our Primary Ministry
  59. Bread-Making
  60. Praying Without Ceasing

    Acknowledgments
    Notes



1
And a Happy New Ear

Julia, my youngest, and Aidan, our middle child, had a fight. She was singing a rather raucous rendition of “We Wish You a Merry Christmas.” Aidan, unaware of the flurry that would soon befall him, intertwined his boy choir voice with hers and finished “and a happy New Year.”

Julia cocked her head, her blonde hair jutting to one side. “Aidan, you are singing that wrong.”

“No, I’m not, Julia.” “Yes, you are.”

“No, I’m not,” he seconded, this time in a higher pitch—like a clearly rendered high C.

“Yes, you are,” she replied plainly. “It’s supposed to be ‘and a Happy New Ear.’ You are wrong.”

At this point I turned from the spectacle and laughed. When I regained my momlike composure, as any good authority figure should, I told Julia, “Actually, Julia, Aidan is right. It is Happy New Year, not Ear.

“No, it’s not, Mommy. You are wrong.”

Perhaps I am. We all need Merry Christmases. And many of us need Happy New Ears. I realized that truth when I read about a man and his family during a particular boom to a small Washington state village in the late 1800s. Gold-hungry folks crowded into that tiny community, creating great amounts of construction, mayhem, laughter, vitality, and even a printing press.

When the Canadian government required these “settlers” to get a license in Canada to hunt the elusive metal, everyone except the initial Washington settlers fled, leaving behind shells of homes, useless acres full of mud, and fallen trees.

When the last schooner pulled away, the family’s patriarch looked up to the sky because he heard something. It was the lilting song of the ducks. He had forgotten them. All the noise had blotted their song from him during the summertime boom. For a day he simply sat and listened to the ducks.

I need to listen to the ducks. I need to listen more to everything—the “Mommy pleases,” the nuances of sadness in my pre-teen daughter, the friendly voice of my son in his simple joy over creating a model, the cat’s purr, a friend’s tired voice, my husband’s perplexing over theological questions. These nuances need to be mined rather than ignored.

But to listen well we have to make a choice. To have a new ear, we have to blot out other distractions that pepper us all day long. The seemingly important things—the things that assail from left and right, from above and beneath—are like tiny insidious monsters, pulling us in directions we never intended to go. They have loud voices, disguised in ringing telephones, ding-donging doorbells, blaring televisions, static-loving radios.

There are days I just want to throw my tired hands to the sky and shout, “Enough!” in some sort of poetic declaration to the noise gods that I will not listen. It’s not really their fault. I have to learn to turn things off, to not clutter my life with so much noise. I can’t hear the important things if the unimportant clamor minute by minute for my attention. “This is what the Sovereign LORD, the Holy One of Israel, says: ‘In repentance and rest is your salvation, and quietness and trust is your strength, but you would have none of it’” (Isaiah 30:15).

If I disdain repentance, rest, quietness, and trust, I will not hear what God wants me to hear. I will be tossed here and there by noise, neglecting the cries of my children or stifling the cry of my heart to be quiet before Jesus.

Many times the noise I refuse to quiet is my own, coming from deep inside me. Its voice utters words like “should,” “you’d better,” or “so you can cross that off your list.” When I listen to these voices, I am more apt to snap at my children’s innocent needs or miss a friend’s nonverbal plea for a listening ear.

The only remedy for a loud life and an ear bent away from listening to the important is to cry out to God. “Then they cried out to the LORD in their trouble, and he brought them out of their distress. He stilled the storm to a whisper; the waves of the sea were hushed. They were glad when it grew calm, and he guided them to their desired haven” (Psalm 107:28-30).

Only the Lord who stills the seas can bend my ear toward him and others. For him to perform that auditory surgery, I need to cry out to him. With that in mind, I will sing and a Happy New Ear with glee.

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Dear Jesus, give me new ears. Mine are full of noise right now, and I can’t seem to have any auditory peace. Help me to welcome stillness. Lead me, as the psalmist declared, beside quiet waters. Keep me attuned to the cries of this world—the deeper needs that go unmet because everyone is busy listening to other noise. I want to be your ears today—to my children, my spouse, and your world.

 


Excerpted from Ordinary Mom, Extraordinary God by Mary E. DeMuth. Copyright © 2005 by Harvest House Publishers. Excerpted by permission. All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.